A very relaxing weekend…

That was basically a weekend of nothing.

On Saturday, I took the dogs to the dog park in the morning and then watched three baseball games. First up was the Jays @ Twins, the Jays won in convincing fasion. The Astros @ Red Sox was next and it was a great game with the Astros coming out on top. For the tri-fecta, it was the Braves @ Rockies, and, in typical fashion, the Rockies got pounded.

Now, I must note that the Rockies are doing significantly better this year than they did last year, but they are still not “there”. I don’t think they are actually at the bottom of the division, but making the play-offs is a long shot. A real long shot.

All three of the teams that I like (Astros, Rockies, Jays) are all struggling this season. It’s still early in the season and I suspect that the Astros and Jays will do well and both may make the play-offs yet, time will tell.

Sunday was another relaxing day. The dogs and I went down to Shouldice Park, I figured they would want to go to the river and splash about but both stayed dry. Apollo goes off on his own, exploring and making friends with other dogs and returns to us every few minutes. Twix sticks close and is always within sight. I am glad Apollo always comes back at least.

I had planned on going to the grocery store, but that didn’t materialize. I do need to go today to get some stuff for the week. I have a friend from Ontario visiting and she arrives Tuesday evening. We have a week of exploring planned.

I basically was a vegetable yesterday, it was a nice and relaxing day.

It would seem, perhaps, that my insomnia is going away. I am not counting my chickens before they hatch, but I went to bed at 10 last night and slept until 5 this morning. That’s the longest I have slept in a few months.

Back to umpiring this evening in a u22 game for Calgary North, behind the plate. I would like to avoid getting hit in the mask if the Baseball Gods can grant that simple wish. Another game on Wednesday and then off until Sunday morning.

Should be a great week with spring-like temperatures finally here. Enjoy your week.

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A very relaxing day…

Today was a relaxing day, a very relaxing day. I woke early, as I always do, 4am. I only got about 4 hours sleep as I went to bed around midnight last night.

I had several naps during the day, to catch up on missed sleep last night. I took the dogs to the dog park, it’s starting to dry up, the lake in the corner is about 1/5 the size it was last week.

I got a Cobb salad from Chopped Leaf. They are a bit pricey but the salads are excellent. I had another nap after dinner and slept a few more hours, hence, I’m awake at nearly midnight and not tired at all.

I’ve got nothing planned this weekend. No umpiring at all. My next game is Monday. The weather is supposed to be gorgeous, so the dogs and I will likely go down to the river and they can splash around.

I will be busy umpiring this spring and summer. I’ve already got somewhere around 40 games assigned between Calgary North and Babe Ruth. I’m looking forward to it.

My friend T arrives late Tuesday night. I’m sure it’ll be a good visit. We are doing touristy things. We will be hitting up Banff on Friday, going to the Calgary Zoo another day, the Calgary Tower perhaps and I think we are going down to Crowsnest Pass where I used to live.

I’m looking forward to the week, I’m sure it’ll zip by faster than normal, they do say time flies when you’re having fun.

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A much better game…

I umpired the 22u league again this evening. It was at a diamond in the middle of nowhere south of Calgary. The pay was decent, $75 for the game and $30 for mileage. Pretty good pay for just over 2 hours of work.

I was on the bases again and my partner behind the plate was a father of a player I coached a number of years ago. It was good to see him again and it was a good game.

The first four innings were excellent, a pitchers duel. After the starter was pulled, the wheels fell out from the visiting team.

It ended at the 2:15 mark and the score was about 10-2. We were paid right away via e-transfer which is nice.

It was almost an hour drive home so I’m hoping I don’t have too many games at this diamond. Good news that Apollo was a good boy while I was gone for almost 5 hours, nothing damaged and nothing eaten. Good boy, Apollo. Twix was a good girl, as she always is.

When I got home, I sold two of the baseball gloves I had for sale on marketplace so that was good. I’m not coaching any longer and have no intentions to coach again so I figured I’d get rid of them.

A late dinner and some TV wrapped up the evening. My next game is Monday night.

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Umpiring

I umpired game two of the season tonight. It was for Calgary North Baseball and it was the 22u league.

It was an interesting game. I was on the bases. The final score was somewhere in the neighbourhood of 28-0 and ended in the bottom of the 5th inning due to the mercy rule, thank goodness for the mercy rule.

All in all, a very boring game. I had exactly 2 calls on the bases and they were the easiest calls one could have, the runners beat the ball to the base by at least 5 feet.

Well, it was an easy $75 anyway and the weather was gorgeous. I umpire again tomorrow, on the bases again. Cash game, I believe and I get an extra $30 in mileage as well.

I’m going to be busy umpiring since I’m off work, it’ll keep me busy and hopefully, out of trouble.

I’ve got two double headers on the weekend for Babe Ruth. I’m glad baseball season is back.

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Umpiring…

I had my first game last Wednesday evening for Babe Ruth. I continue my umpiring season tonight for Calgary North. The game is in the deep south of Calgary at New Brighton Athletic Park. Tomorrow I’m even further south, outside of Calgary actually.

I’ve asked the assignor not to schedule me south of New Brighton moving forward, driving 60km one way too umpire a baseball game is sort of crazy to me and she agreed. For some reason, she thought I live in South Calgary whereas I’m actually just about as far north as one can be and still be in the city.

I’ve got two double headers this weekend at the diamond that I usually umpire at. I’ll be making some decent money this season for sure.

I haven’t decided if I’m going to umpire in the Regional tournament this July or not, I don’t know if I’ll be asked. Time will tell. Regardless, I’m probably getting at least 5 games a week, so it’ll keep me busy and, hopefully, out of trouble.

I purchased a new helmet last week, I won’t put it to use until the weekend as I’m on bases the next two games. It was past time for a new one at the old is about 8 years old now. It was under $300 at least.

I’m looking forward to a few months of excellent baseball. Hoping I won’t get hit too often and when I do, may it always hit padding.

Play Ball !!!

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Let’s go on a trip…

I have a few trips coming up and a few people are visiting Calgary as well.

Next week, my friend T comes to visit from Ontario for 5 days. It will be a good visit, I am sure. We are doing to touristy things in and around Calgary, probably a day trip to Banff as well.

In late May, my friend from California, JB, is visiting, also for 5 days. We will do the same, although JB has never been to Alberta, so it may be more extensive.

I have no travel plans or visitors in June, as of right now. In July, friends from Idaho are visiting during the Calgary Stampede. They have also never been to Calgary, so we will do the touristy stuff as well.

In lateish August, I will be going on a road trip to Ontario. I will be heading Calgary to Denver and will catch a Colorado Rockies baseball game. I will then head to the Nashville area to see two friends and take in the sights and sounds of Nashville. From there, I will head to Niagara via the Detroit area and will have lunch or dinner with a friend and former colleague.

I will visit friends in Niagara, friends and family in the GTA and friends in Ottawa before heading back West to Calgary. I am expecting to be away for 14-17 days, depending on how much driving I do each day on the road. I will stop when I am tired and get a motel room along the way, nothing planned in concrete, that’s for sure.

I have tentative dog care for Twix and Apollo while I am gone, in my house so they won’t be stressed at all, they may just miss their Dad.

It should be a great trip and I will be making it in my new Ford Bronco, I will probably put at least 10,000km on it during the trip. I will knock off a few states that I have not visited as yet, so that will be cool.

I may go on an Alaskan cruise in September – unsure as yet. In early October I am heading to Idaho for 5 days.

I have a couple of other ideas that I may or may not do, nothing set as yet. Should be a good few months.

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It’s 3am, might as well wake up…

It’s my first full week off on leave and I woke up at 2am and that was too early for my tastes so I went back to sleep and slept until 3am. I can accept that.

So, I’m up. Apollo has gone out to pee and I’ve peed (I’m sure you’re glad to hear that). Coffee is brewed and ready for consumption. I think I’m going to make a cafe mocha today.

I also have some pound cake for breakfast. Sounds like a good start to the week.

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Some stuff to do…

So, with my recent medical prognosis, I need to do some “things” for the inevitable.

I need to get a will together. That is on my to-do list for May. A friend is going to assist me with it, she has also agreed to be a co-executor of my estate, not that there’s a ton in the estate really.

I have given a list of people who need to be notified if I should pass to the other co-executor, and he will have the possibly unpleasant task of letting friends know.

The dogs are taken care of. That is my only real worry. They will be looked after until their natural deaths.

I don’t want a funeral or anything. Cremate me and scatter me somewhere. I don’t care where, really, perhaps a baseball diamond, or somewhere in Crowsnest Pass. Scatter Zeus, Blondie and Hera with me as well, they are in the house on the shelf unit in the corner.

I am going to set-up a trust fund for St. Catharines Minor Baseball for 5 players per year who will write a short essay on what baseball means to them and what SCMBA has done for them over their playing careers. It will be 5 full rides to any college or university on the planet, tuition, books, room and board. Call it the Kevin D’Arcy Memorial Scolarship or something along those lines.

I will leave money for my dogs, so that they can be looked after. Twix is 13, so who knows how long she will be around, but, with how stubborn she is, probably a long time still. Apollo isn’t quite one yet, or around that anyway, so he has 10+ years left – at least. They will be well looked after, I am promised.

So, that’s where I am. Making sure the i’s are dotted and the t’s are crossed. It’s sort of morbid, but, whatever. It is what it is.

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Up in the middle of the night…

Gotta love having insomnia. I woke up this morning at 2am and knew I was up for the night.

I’ve had this on and off for 30+ years and although I suppose I’m used to it, it’s still freaking annoying.

I get up, let the dogs out and watch a movie or TV or play video games, something to pass the time anyway.

This morning, I’m watching a great Clint Eastwood movie, Gran Torino.

I’ll probably go back to bed at some point and have a nap. It’s a Sunday so there’s nothing much going on today.

Now that I am off work, there’s nothing much pressing to do most days. I do return to umpiring this week on Wednesday evening, so that’ll hopefully keep me out of trouble.

I have some friends visiting in May, two separate trips one in the beginning of the month and one at the end of the month. I’m looking forward to both.

For now, while I’m not sleeping, I’ll watch movies and write blog entries.

I hope you’re sleeping well.

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Not a great prognosis…

I’ve had a cough for about 6 months now. On April 11, it was a Saturday, I started coughing up blood. This continued until Sunday. On Monday morning, I visited my doctor, he was concerned to say the least. He sent me to see an oncologist at Noon on the Monday.

I had a biopsy and then a second to confirm the results of the first biopsy. I then had an MRI at 3pm.

At 4pm, I was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer which had also spread to my brain.

To say the least, I was absolutely shocked to the core.

It’s been 10 or so days now, and I’ve accepted this. I’m told that I have less than a 1% chance to see the New Year. Well, doctor, I’m pretty damn stubborn and I don’t accept that I won’t be around in 2027.

I’ve declined treatment and the oncologist agrees with my decision. I saw what chemo and radiation did to my Mom and I won’t go through that. I feel great now and I don’t want that to change.

I’m off work on leave and plan on living life to the fullest.

Wish me well, if you will, but please don’t treat me differently than you did yesterday. Thank you.

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